Why Try Swinging?
If you’re looking to try something new with your partner, then you’ve come to the right place. If you’re looking to live out your own fantasies without any regard for the other people involved, then you might want to reconsider.
What Swinging Can Do For You…
When you’re in a stable relationship for a while, it’s normal to feel a sense of longing for something different. It isn’t because you love the other person less, but that you are just wondering what the feel of another’s skin would be like or how other fantasies might play out.
One of the ways to find out if you’re ready to try swinging is the manner in which you discuss the idea with your partner. If you’re having a difficult time broaching the subject, then you may not be ready.
If you have open lines of communication and a genuine respect for each other, then you won’t necessarily have a hard time talking to each other. Swinging has helped a lot of already strong couples become even stronger.
By sharing a new sexual experience with another person with your partner’s full knowledge, you may find that you can talk more freely about anything. Confidence is another thing that’s often reported after a swinging experience.
You and your partner can go off and have a wonderful and satisfying adventure, but still come back to the partner that you love and want to spend your time with.
Swinging can also show you about yourself and the things that you are willing to try. Many women find that they are more about relating to other women. Of course, men need to realize that living out the fantasy of watching two women together is not something that always happens.
What Swinging Will Not Do For You…
Swinging is not a cure for a shaky relationship. It might seem like a great way to change up the relationship dynamics and infuse life into your marriage. And it might for a while.
But if communication is an issue or feeling of jealousy, swinging can not help. In fact, it may help to hasten the demise of your relationship.
Swinging also does not guarantee that you will be able to satisfy all of your fantasies. If you like to explore humiliation or other demeaning acts, then you are not necessarily in the right place. Much of the enjoyment of swinging comes from being respective of another couple and allowing them the opportunity to enjoy their fantasies as they allow you yours.
Swinging is not for everyone. You may find that the fantasy is not the same as real life, or that the fantasy was enough. Do a little research before you dismiss it entirely, but realize that ‘no’ means ‘no’ and if your partner just isn’t interested, then you must oblige their wishes.
Kemo D. (a.k.a. no.7)